The Sound of Gravel

By Ruth Wariner

The Sound of Gravel - Ruth Wariner
  • Release Date: 2016-01-05
  • Genre: Biographies & Memoirs
Score: 4.5
4.5
From 1,279 Ratings

Description

A New York Times bestseller, The Sound of Gravel is the remarkable true story of one girl's coming-of-age in a polygamist Mormon Doomsday cult.

“A haunting, harrowing testament to survival." — People Magazine
“An addictive chronicle of a polygamist community.” — New York Magazine


Ruth Wariner was the thirty-ninth of her father’s forty-two children. Growing up on a farm in rural Mexico, where authorities turned a blind eye to the practices of her community, Ruth lives in a ramshackle house without indoor plumbing or electricity. At church, preachers teach that God will punish the wicked by destroying the world and that women can only ascend to Heaven by entering into polygamous marriages and giving birth to as many children as possible. After Ruth's father--the man who had been the founding prophet of the colony--is brutally murdered by his brother in a bid for church power, her mother remarries, becoming the second wife of another faithful congregant.

In need of government assistance and supplemental income, Ruth and her siblings are carted back and forth between Mexico and the United States, where her mother collects welfare and her step-father works a variety of odd jobs. Ruth comes to love the time she spends in the States, realizing that perhaps the community into which she was born is not the right one for her. As Ruth begins to doubt her family’s beliefs and question her mother’s choices, she struggles to balance her fierce love for her siblings with her determination to forge a better life for herself.

Recounted from the innocent and hopeful perspective of a child, The Sound of Gravel is the remarkable true story of a girl fighting for peace and love. This is an intimate, gripping book resonant with triumph, courage, and resilience.

Reviews

  • Beautiful Book

    5
    By Suze246
    Incredible book, beautifully written. I couldn’t put it down.
  • My note to the author…

    4
    By callmeJudithCarey
    Dear Ruth, I almost had to put this book down, several times and stop reading it. I’m not sure if it’s your style of writing or what you endured that left me so emotional for your family’s circumstance. I told myself that if this was fiction I could stop reading, but it was your real life story and you deserve to be heard. Reading the epilogue just shows that how you chose to overcome your trauma has shaped you into a beautiful, resilient soul. I don’t think the majority of people who went through what you did would choose to live their lives and share their stories. Whether you find this note or not, thank you for sharing. I’m glad I didn’t stop reading it. I’m so glad that you escaped. Blessings
  • Beautiful and heartbreaking

    5
    By blbreads
    This story is so heartbreaking, but also a beautiful story about strength and perseverance. I could not put it down. Thank you, Ruth, for having the courage to share it.
  • Loved it!

    5
    By Truth072
    Heart wrenching novel about a young girl as she traverses life in a polygamist family. Warning- it could definitely be brutal at times. I found myself wincing and needing to take a break from reading it to process my own emotions from experiencing (second-hand) Ruth’s abuse/traumas. Definitely a page turner. Highly recommend for those interested in learning more about the Mormon polygamist colony in Lebaron!
  • Mesmerizing

    5
    By Green sculls
    A book full of painful truths, love of family and success. Very well written!
  • Love

    5
    By Coco Kemelgor
    This is literally my favorite book ever! everytime i’m in the mood to read i always gravitate towards this book. 11/10; amazing !
  • The Sound of Gravel

    5
    By Bitty3Babies
    A most heart-warming read! I couldn't put it down! Fast moving and most of all so interesting! A memoir written in the time period of the 1970-1980's -- a big Mormon family trying to live in their parents' strange world of polygamy and all its different religious beliefs & customs. I was also captured by the different personalities of the various family members and everything they had to endure -- the story brought me to tears! The strength and courage of the narrator/author was incredible and showed that she truly was a SURVIVOR!
  • Unbelievable

    5
    By 1lzrdlvr
    Just an amazing story of survival in extremely difficult circumstances
  • Bring tissues

    5
    By annielazz
    Heart wrenching and heroic
  • Beautiful and heartbreaking - couldn’t put it down.

    5
    By Nkleindo
    A beautifully written memoir about courage, resilience and the bond between siblings. I felt deep sadness, and anger while reading about the egregious abuse Ruthie and her siblings endured under the polygamist community they were born into. This story is important in the fight against child abuse, and should be required reading for child welfare agencies.
  • Couldn’t put it down

    5
    By TNWhiskey
    This is a must read.
  • Thankfull

    5
    By 7SoviaK777
    This was a smooth read that didn't have too much fillers between the chapters. I was connected with the author most of the time.
  • Amazing story of perseverance

    5
    By MarkF785
    I was unaware that this was a true story until I got into the book. Couldn’t put it down thereafter. To think that’s this is a true life experience is eye opening. Very well written.
  • Fabulous book

    5
    By Dolly Dunski
    Could not put this book down. Amazing what Ruthie and her family went through and what courage she had at just 15 years old.
  • Eye opening

    5
    By emschum
    Really puts life into perspective. Thank you for sharing your story.
  • Oh wow

    4
    By TheBookThumper21
    I read the book in two days.. A lot of respect for Ruthie and Matt
  • Eye Opening/Inspirational

    5
    By 2020MoreBooks
    I chose this book not fully knowing what to expect but hoping to learn/expose myself to a way of life I hadn’t heard much of before. Not only did this book expand my horizons but it was extremely inspirational. It really puts things into perspective and makes you reevaluate what is truly important in life. Because of Ruth’s amazing writing I felt like I was living through the pain, horror and success with her and her family. Thank you for sharing your story! I am so happy that *spoiler alert* you and your family have been safe for upwards of 20 years. You deserve every ounce of success, praise and joy you are/will receive and just know your courage is enlightening and inspiring people all over.
  • I loved this book.

    5
    By Mamabarberc
    Heartbreaking. Interesting. Kept me coming back for more.
  • Awesome book!!

    5
    By tlnavarre
    I brought the book because it was cheap, and it turned out to be a rlly great purchase!!!!