The Let Them Theory
By Mel Robbins & Sawyer Robbins
- Release Date: 2024-12-24
- Genre: Self-Improvement
Description
Over 7 Million Copies Sold!
#1 New York Times Bestseller
#1 Sunday Times Bestseller
#1 Amazon Bestseller
#1 Audible Bestseller
A Life-Changing Tool Millions of People Can’t Stop Talking About
What if the key to happiness, success, and love was as simple as two words?
If you've ever felt stuck, overwhelmed, or frustrated with where you are, the problem isn't you. The problem is the power you give to other people. Two simple words—Let Them—will set you free. Free from the opinions, drama, and judgments of others. Free from the exhausting cycle of trying to manage everything and everyone around you. The Let Them Theory puts the power to create a life you love back in your hands—and this book will show you exactly how to do it.
In her latest groundbreaking book, The Let Them Theory, Mel Robbins—New York Times bestselling author and one of the world's most respected experts on motivation, confidence, and mindset—teaches you how to stop wasting energy on what you can't control and start focusing on what truly matters: YOU. Your happiness. Your goals. Your life.
Using the same no-nonsense, science-backed approach that's made The Mel Robbins Podcast a global sensation, Robbins explains why The Let Them Theory is already loved by millions and how you can apply it in eight key areas of your life to make the biggest impact. Within a few pages, you'll realize how much energy and time you've been wasting trying to control the wrong things—at work, in relationships, and in pursuing your goals—and how this is keeping you from the happiness and success you deserve.
Written as an easy-to-understand guide, Robbins shares relatable stories from her own life, highlights key takeaways, relevant research and introduces you to world-renowned experts in psychology, neuroscience, relationships, happiness, and ancient wisdom who champion The Let Them Theory every step of the way.
Learn how to:
Stop wasting energy on things you can't control Stop comparing yourself to other peopleBreak free from fear and self-doubtRelease the grip of people's expectationsBuild the best friendships of your lifeCreate the love you deservePursue what truly matters to you with confidenceBuild resilience against everyday stressors and distractionsDefine your own path to success, joy, and fulfillment. . . and so much more.
The Let Them Theory will forever change the way you think about relationships, control, and personal power. Whether you want to advance your career, motivate others to change, take creative risks, find deeper connections, build better habits, start a new chapter, or simply create more happiness in your life and relationships, this book gives you the mindset and tools to unlock your full potential.
Order your copy of The Let Them Theory now and discover how much power you truly have. It all begins with two simple words.
The cover has been updated to include the name of co-author Sawyer Robbins. Customers may receive either version of the cover at random.
Reviews
Amazing
5By lssrbThis book was suggested to me during a hard time I was going through, and this book helped me so much. I’m so grateful!Let me say!
5By President RickbI love this book, it is very inspirational!Mel has gotten it right yet again. Don’t miss this book.
5By Dicover Balance HealingMel speaks truth in a clear, relatable manner while offering real life tangible solutions. Well said, Mel. Thank you for finding and bravely following your purpose to help us all.A life changing book!
5By MiragroaneThis book has changed my perspective on how I show up in relationships. The most important relationship is the one with you!Let Them, Let Me Review
5By DottiemchMel Robbins, you have been in my head! Every word in this book has shown me why and how I give others the ability to make me feel less worthy than I truly am. From my childhood, I have had my Father and Mother in my head saying "be a good girl, don't embarrass the family, always put family first before making any important decisions " Wow, I finally feel like all those years of being second in my own life can now be changed. I am a very capable woman and don't want to give my power of self esteem to anyone, but enjoy what I have accomplished myself in my own world. Thank you so much for this book and it's wisdom and amazing view points.Super empowering
5By H NashThis book, and Mel Robbins, speaks for itself once you’ve read it. I suggest reading it rather than listening to the audio, it will “speak to you” more that way.Amazing read especially during my break up
5By pbmike15Mel Robbins did an amazing job writing this book. From the moment I started it I was completely hooked. I have recently went through a break-up after being with my partner for 6 years and this book has all the answers to how I will get better. If you’re hesitant about reading it, don’t be. This book is life-changing!10 Stars
5By JahariTheVirgoAmazing book. Definitely Gave me a different perception on things. I’m GreatfulJust listen to a podcast
2By 1836292619374I know. It’s harsh. The core of the book is good - but it’s an article or podcast (she’s done quite a few) that should have stayed that length. It is so repetitive and so much filler. You can skip 80% of it - she repeats so many sentences it’s just hard to read. Whole paragraphs of wasted text everywhere repeating the same phrases with different words at the end. Even her sentences are backwards and full of filler like she had to hit a word count. It’s a little out of control. That said, the theory is interesting and does have merit. I wish there was more to it that could have created a thorough book. The book hype is kind of weird, please listen to her podcast with Jay Shetty instead - even a few times through. It’s 100x better than the book. There is maybe one chapter worth reading out of the whole thing. I kept waiting for her to really get into the theory but it just never got there. It was just watered down throughout 200 pages. If you like her style of writing, go for it. If you have read her other books and regretted it, this is more of the same writing style.Repetitive
3By TheDarkKnight999Good lessons and material, but it’s incessantly and unnecessarily repetitive. It seems like one of those books that’s just written to make money from. I love Mel Robbins and her social media videos, podcast, etc, but this book easily could have been half the size.A must read!
4By VATechRunnerLoved the book. Quick read and applicable to all aspects of life.Straight-forward concept with clear application, runs a bit tired halfway through.
3By filmguyryanI found the mantra helpful and a good meditation in my own life. Mel does as good a job as possible at illustrating the many areas of your life where this can be applied. However, by the 9th or 10th example the concept becomes tired and thin. There are some chapters that I found incredibly helpful and had a lot of depth. Other chapters felt like Robbins was marching toward a word count goal with her publisher. The message was overly-redundant and inherently simplistic. Good life strategy, didn’t warrant 336 pages.Wonderful!
5By ellla7575I love that she is incredibly realistic! Very helpful.Let Me finally be ME!
5By hoosurlady64At 72, I have been my husbands caregiver for ten years. I have been waiting all my adult life to see and tour Italy and Greece. I retired at 62 from a steel mill ( after more than 25 years) so I could travel as I have always dreamed of. After reading this book, Let Him be sick. Let Me plan the tours. My husband can't stop his sickness, but it is only temporary. He is terminally ill. I pray it is not this year that I lose my best friend, father to our family and love of my life but I have given up enough of myself to him already. I don't know how much time I have left. Let Me plan this trip to Italy and Greece! Let me see what life without him will be before it happens. Let Me FINALLY live for ME! Not Him, our children, or our twelve grandchildren. ME!Amazing Book!
5By JGonzalez01312This is a great book for anyone that wants a better life.A profound and thoughtful read
5By Ty5757This book read more like a love letter, spiced with some painful truths…Loved every page!!!Amazing
5By Mem 6Great insight!So worth the read!
5By TyStAmourSo worth the read, changed my outlook on so many levels. Will be reading it again.Wow wow . A book to read
5By ChawyI have read a few other books before. But this own has to be the best one to help me determine who I need to be. Let them, let me, will change how you view friends, family, yourself, and the people around you. Your reaction is in your hands, your power is in your hands. Thank you, 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙌

