Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents

By Lindsay C. Gibson

Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents - Lindsay C. Gibson
  • Release Date: 2015-06-01
  • Genre: Self-Improvement
Score: 4.5
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Description

A New York Times bestsellerwith more than one million copies sold!

If you grew up with an emotionally immature, unavailable, or selfish parent, you may have lingering feelings of anger, loneliness, betrayal, or abandonment. You may recall your childhood as a time when your emotional needs were not met, when your feelings were dismissed, or when you took on adult levels of responsibility in an effort to compensate for your parent’s behavior. These wounds can be healed, and you can move forward in your life.

In this breakthrough book, clinical psychologist Lindsay Gibson exposes the destructive nature of parents who are emotionally immature or unavailable. You will see how these parents create a sense of neglect, and discover ways to heal from the pain and confusion caused by your childhood. By freeing yourself from your parents’ emotional immaturity, you can recover your true nature, control how you react to them, and avoid disappointment. Finally, you’ll learn how to create positive, new relationships so you can build a better life.

Discover the four types of difficult parents:

The emotional parent instills feelings of instability and anxiety
The driven parent stays busy trying to perfect everything and everyone
The passive parent avoids dealing with anything upsetting
The rejecting parent is withdrawn, dismissive, and derogatory

Reviews

  • book is faulty

    1
    By tlautenv
    it doesn’t let me read past page 21.
  • Glitch

    1
    By lriv810
    Book is faulty. Cant get passed page 121.
  • Very enlightening

    5
    By bibliophile65
    It brought so much clarity about how my dysfunctional past ruined some relationships
  • Life-Changing

    5
    By 7890-3421
    I didn’t realize how much I was carrying every day until I read this book. I appreciate how it was tactful to not make me blame my parents but just learned from my experiences and help me be a better man.
  • If I could buy this for everyone I would.

    5
    By birdsarecool65
    Saved my life. Should be mandatory to read and comprehend. Would solve so many problems. Thank you so much. You changed my life. This book helped me get sober. This book made my 29 year old wife realize she’s been carrying the weight of not liking her mom despite her mom being dead. “You can’t speak ill….” You know how it goes. I went NC with my parents for the last time. This book is an invaluable tool for living in an externalist world. Thank you lady G. It’s like breathing for the first time. Wow. I will apply the themes in this every day, in every interaction.
  • Highly recommend

    5
    By CTB1007
    Incredible book. One of the best book recommendations I’ve ever received.
  • Incredible

    5
    By herhqcb
    Life changing book, this book healed me and allowed peace in my life. I wish I could thank her for this gift, because this book is truly a gift.
  • Highly Recommend.

    5
    By Tahoe JB
    Great book that probably needs to be read twice - or highlight sections that registered with you throughout the book during your first read and then review those highlights from time to time. This book forced me to look at my relationships in a different light and forced me to look at myself differently as well. My parents were not emotionally immature; quite to the contrary. I read this book to help me more effectively connect with those that were raised by emotionally immature parents. I have a whole new outlook on these relationships after reading this book.
  • Enlightenment with every page.

    5
    By rjblankicz
    It was a hard read only because of self identification.
  • Life changing

    5
    By Fbbhjj
    I’ve never read a book so quickly in my life that resonated so deeply.
  • Beautiful.

    5
    By Cheezboy12
    Truly, beautiful. This has helped me in so many ways uncover the truth I’ve always known and experienced, and validate my existence and reality. Thank you.
  • Redundant

    2
    By joshua1990dudeguy
    Some useful info but was increasingly difficult to stay engaged as the pages flipped by. The desire to read on was held back by redundancy.
  • Extremely helpful

    5
    By GodTruthLight
    Thank you! This book has been so helpful to me and my healing journey. I am so blessed to have found this book. Thank you for the time and effort you put into making this available!!!
  • This book changed my life

    5
    By spathos
    It gave me a language for experiences that I didn’t have words for. Well written with useful examples for anyone who has a difficult relationship with one or both parents and can’t explain why.
  • What a find !

    5
    By MeganRocks87
    This book truly changed my adult life around. It really puts everything into perspective. A must read!
  • Sibling Stocking Stuffer

    5
    By Aaron Kyle Moore
    In a world where immaturity is normalized, I’m inspired by what we could be if only we woke up and broke our childhood emotional chains. Good book to read before the holidays with family.
  • Introspective Read

    5
    By baalsbqhqoehdk12311
    EVERYONE should read this book. Want to have your mind blown? This book is it right here.
  • Just buy it already!

    5
    By songshivers
    This book managed to break my six year streak of being unable to finish a book, likely courtesy of the emotional unpacking it assists in.
  • Humbling. Eye opening. Comforting.

    5
    By graciecomway
    On a personal journey to heal - this book really helped me dive into how to start, validated a lot of feelings and thoughts within myself that are hard to even speak of in therapy. As I prepare for EMDR therapy I stumbled upon this title, and wil forever refer back to this as I complete trauma therapy to help imbed what to watch for in others, and myself.