Loving Sober

First discovering and then demonstrating the Loving Sober Principles absolutely transformed our already functional marriage to one beyond our wildest dreams. We were also fortunate to have such a fantastic guide help us through the 12-week process. It continues to be the foundation through which Love is expressed a little more fully each day. Wrenching cyclical emotional events and dramas are simply not a part of our relationship now - something I never believed could happen. When emotion occasionally surfaces, we apply the Loving Sober Principles - which begin by recognizing that any reaction we experience is our own erroneous story, and not our partner's and must be dealt with there - and it melts quickly. Absolutely miraculous. For goodness sakes, download, read and apply absolutely everything beautifully gifted in "Loving Sober!!"

Jay's book has been a life-changer. Through the use of the principals and the daily meditation practice, my wife and I have come to a new and much deeper understanding of ourselves and each other. We now have real conversations! Who knew?