How to Cure a Commitment Phobic

By Lyn Kelley

How to Cure a Commitment Phobic - Lyn Kelley
  • Release Date: 2010-04-15
  • Genre: Self-Improvement
Score: 3.5
3.5
From 9 Ratings

Description

New updated edition 2023. Dr. Lyn Kelley explains what a relationship commitment-phobic (CP) is and how one can be cured, or at least become committable. If there is any way to do it, this is the way! Lyn has over 20 years experience counseling and coaching couples, researching this topic, as well as her own experience and observing those of her friends. Lyn uses bold, honest, straight talk and tells it like it is.
Chapter One: What is Commitment Phobia?
Normal vs Irrational Fear
How Severe is His Case?
Lead With Your Head
How to Use Your "Chi"
Ambivalence and Inconsistency

Chapter Two: How to Spot a Commitment Phobic Right Away
Get Information
Find Out What He Values
Don't Take It Personally
Be the Selector
34 Red Flags

Chapter Three: Can Commitment Phobics be Cured?
How Good Jane Handles a CP
Men Are Like Fish

Chapter Four: How to Secure a Commitment From a Commitment Phobic
The 5 Keys to Securing a Commitment From a CP
Learn His Game
Don't Give Away Your Jewels for Free
Stop Paying Men to Have Sex With You
Don't Be a Love-Sick Crack Addict
Don't Be the Dead Deer on the Doorstep

Chapter Five: How Your Five Guiding Forces Will Always Serve You Well
Always Lead With Your Head
How Your "Gut Instincts" Serve You
How Your "Chi" Serves You
How Your "Heart" Serves You
How Your "Chemistry" Serves You
How to Move On If He Can't Commit
The 10 Commandments with CP's

Reviews

  • Thank you.

    5
    By nutritionisToni
    ✔️Add my name to the list of people you’ve helped.
  • It Works!

    5
    By Seriously, Dude
    Dr. Lyn helped me understand what commitment phobia is and what causes it. I learned how to "help" a man to commit and how to know if he's "commitable." The best part was learning about my "guiding forces" and how using them gets you better responses from men. The other most valuable part was learning how to be the "selector" and not the "convincer." Asking the right questions at the right time. This will definitely help me in all my future relationships (although I'm hoping to find "The One" soon!).
  • How to Cure a Commitment Phobic

    1
    By Brian J Ahrens
    If you are a male dealing with a female CP, think twice. While I came away with some thought provoking insights, I will use my brain, the head above my shoulders, in any future relationships. Thank you Lyn. This book is written by a woman for women. I found it extremely difficult if not impossible to replace "her" with "him" throughout the book.
  • Don't waste your $$$

    1
    By stefanieperse
    The words do not show on the page!!! I was robbed, don't be a fool like me.